Last year I had a very messy divorce with my ex partner.
What I had thought was adore for so long turned out so wrong. I l gained over the years that he was an abusive control freak with no empathy to supply to others. Everything had to be about him constantly, in addition to if it wasn’t it was constantly my fault. I thought this was normal for so long. He tried to isolate myself and others in addition to keep myself and others away from the people that legitimately cared, adore my family in addition to friends. He told myself and others things adore nobody ever could or would adore myself and others in addition to that I needed him. It wasn’t until I got my head somewhat clear that I saw it for what it definitely was, which was just another sick way for him to control me, but on the few chances I did talk to my friends they would simply ask myself and others why I stayed with him, they couldn’t understand why I would stay, even with their fantastic intentions because they hadn’t lived it. It wasn’t until I meant someone on the outside that I saw how messed up it was, that was the time that I found my freedom in addition to I broke away from my crazy partner. It had started with the little things, adore him having full control over our thermostat. If I even turned the dial thermostat as much as a single degree he would lose his mind. This got worse when he contacted the heating in addition to cooling corporation in addition to purchased a smart thermostat. The heating in addition to cooling professional came out in addition to had helped us set it up, in addition to ever since that day, the entire Heating in addition to Air Conditioning was controlled by an app on his cellphone only. Due to our temperature differences, this made even just staying in the same house difficult.